secret problem my advice just dont tell to others because its become burdens to other..bilamana terlalu banyak masalah diorang akan rasa banyak nya masalah dia ni ..tak menyeronokkan langsung .. so left her .. so that is the situation..tapi orang tu tak tahu bila mana segala perkara dicerita maksud nya dirinya dipercayai disayangi.. but its become burden to others..so if you want friends stay with you just dont tell your problem just jangan mengadu dekat diorang..simpan sesorang je..just tell to allah..only allah will stay with you..you have to learn untuk hidup sorang.. mati nanti pon sorang .. so think about it.. nothing  can scared you except allah.. so live your life alone..you have allah with you.. face it with brave and believe allah will always be with you